Help I’m a Christian and I’m Stuck!

Firstly let me tell you, you are not alone!


                          “Help, I’m Stuck!”

As a Christian Life Coach I get numerous folk wanting to move forward in various aspects of their life, but find themselves Stuck!

They have plans to pursue new careers, to take up hobbies, fitness regimes or become more involved in their church, expressing the Gifts and Talents God has graced them with.

Their intentions are honourable; but meanwhile the Enemy of our soul is rubbing his hands in absolute glee to see God’s people paralysed by such inaction!

I should know; I’ve been there…

I did however discover that the solution to my ‘Stuck-ness!’ was not to dig around trying to undo all the strands leading to ‘Stuck-ness!’ but instead – to dig around in my own soul to find whether Jesus, The Word, is in control and that I am living my life through Him and Him and not Me! Now there’s a challenge!

The Bible put’s it this way –

“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave His life for me.”  Galatians, 3:3

The Lord know’s exactly what He wants for each one of us. It is only through living by faith in Him that we know His perfect will and purpose for our lives.

Bottom line …. He’s not stuck and neither are we – In Him.

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UnbeliefUnbelief is a state of mind; a way of thinking; an attitude of heart. Although unbelief is powerful it can, however, be eroded by the Truth of God’s Word.

Unbelief is an inferior spiritual force that needs to be confronted head on! We read in the Book of Mathew 13: 58 that… “Jesus did not do any mighty works there because of their unbelief.” Jesus requires us to develop our own faith, a faith that is based upon His Words of faith.

His spirit lives in us and as we join our faith with His faith then the miracles take place. But we must believe!

How then do we develop this kind of faith, the kind of faith that believes for miracles when we speak the Word?

The Bible tells us that faith comes by hearing and hearing the Word of God. In short, we renew our mind when we read, meditate upon and confess God’s Word.

For example you may like to speak out loud the following Scripture verses based upon His eternal faithfulness towards meeting your needs and prospering you in all that you turn your hands to.

“…I will hasten My Word to perform it.” Jer. 1:12b “ But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus” Phil. 4:19 “Casting all your care upon Him; for he cares for you.” 1 Pet. 5:7

How to be Free From Christian Regrets

“… forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead…” Failure!

The Christian life is forever forward-looking. And yet so many of us are crippled by past hurts, disappointments and regrets.


The consequences of this dilema is that we are no longer able to fulfill the second part of this well-known Scripture: “… I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus..” (Philippians 3:14)

The ‘Prize’ is God’s call upon our life ‘In Christ Jesus’. It is a calling far higher than we would ever imagine! (Especially when so many of us are dealing with regrets, disappointments and failures).

And yet God can, and will, restore the wasted years and the missed opportunities. We only need to give Him our faith, based upon His promises, and then rest in Him.

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How To Overcome Fear of Failure



Fear of failure is actually the ‘Fear of Man!’

Fear of Failure It is the shame that comes from being over concerned with what others think of us!  Will they accept us? Will we fit in? What are they saying and thinking about us?

Fear of failure will cripple our walk with the Lord!

We are so busy assessing what others think about us we lose sight of the fact that we are supposed to be living for Jesus and not for man!

Fear of failure has the potential to shut us down to ‘stepping out’ for Jesus. Fact is, we couldn’t bear the shame of getting it wrong! More fear, more failure!

In an effort to make ourselves look good on the outside we work on our appearance. We dress well; we smile and make ourselves look acceptable. We adopt an attitude and appearance of ‘having it all together!’ Alternatively, we simply give up!

The root of fear of failure is fear of rejection!

The tragedy is that God did not design us this way. This is what ‘Life’ has put upon us!

As ‘teens’ and young adults we would get up to all manner of mischief! Our elders would rebuke us. They would say: “Do you have you no shame!”

True, it was wrong for us to have done those things, but the cure for sin is not found in self effort, but in the finished work of the Cross of Jesus! He alone bore our shame! He bore our fear of failure and has become our Righteousness with God the Father – for us, on our behalf!

It is Jesus that lives. The life we now live in the flesh we live by faith in Him. (Gal. 2:10)

In the flesh, I can’t get it all right! I can’t get it all together! I have to die daily to me and choose to live through Him. And when I’m living through Jesus I’m living His Life. I’m living  confidently , courageously, lovingly and accepting of others. This is truly giving God the glory  – it is living through Jesus!

I ‘become’ as Christ in this World.

If you are on a journey of overcoming fear of failure, you do not need to suffer alone. As a Christian you are loved and accepted just as you are. God choose you and drew you to Himself. He has all the resources you need in His Kingdom to make you FREE and to know that ‘in Christ’ you are a great success! Do you want help in knowing your great value as a child of the Most High God.?

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